Monthly Archives: October 2007

Finding good sources of divorce information.

One of the things that we have found over the years is the need for those going through a Divorce to find clear, solid information to help with topics relating to legal, financial, and child custody issues.  Naturally, there are many other area of infomation that are of deep concern and need, but these two seem to […]

Rebuilding Classes

The Rebuilding Seminar is a ten-week educational program to help you adjust to the end of a love relationship. It’s based on the work of Dr. Bruce Fisher, the renowned pioneer in the field of divorce recovery, and his Fisher Seminars. His definitive book, Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends is the foundation for this course. […]

Stuck in Grief, freed by Anger

[Written by Steve Melio; posted by JZ] Since my last entry, I’ve gone through the Adaptation and Grief portions of Rebuilding. Adaptation by itself didn’t seem all that significant, but the Grief exercise freed me from a dark place I’d been stuck in for months. Adaptive behaviors are all those “coping mechanisms” we acquire as […]

My first Rebuilding class

[written by Steve Melio; posted by JZ] When I entered the Divorce Seminar for the first time, I was afraid of “standing out,” of being the oddball. I just knew that my situation couldn’t be the customary divorce scenario shared by all the other people in the room. After all, I wasn’t even sure if […]

The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale

Developed by Dr. Bruce Fisher, The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale (FDAS) consists of 100 statements reflecting common feelings and attitudes of people who have ended or are ending a love relationship. The results reveal the strong and weak areas of adjusting to the loss of the relationship and are profiled in these seven aspects; Self-worth […]

I’m about to start the Rebuilding class

[JZ: Steve Melio is currently taking Rebuilding and will be sharing some of his journal entries with us. Until we get him set up to post on his own, I’ll be posting on his behalf. Here’s his first entry:] I’m not a fan of psychobabble, so I’m working on going into this Rebuilding with an […]

Rebuilding when your relationship ends

The Rebuilding Seminar is a ten-week educational program to help you adjust to the end of a love relationship. It’s based on the work of Dr. Bruce Fisher, the renowned pioneer in the field of divorce recovery, and his Fisher Seminars. His definitive book, Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends is the foundation for this course. […]